TALKING ABOUT IT / 05
Talking About Sex: the exact words to use
The most useful skill in sex is saying what you want out loud. Nobody teaches it. These guides give you the actual sentences: how to ask, how to say 'a little to the left' in the moment, how to bring up the thing you've never mentioned, and how to hear no without it turning into a fight. If the words get stuck in your throat, that's not just you. That's everyone. Here's how to get them out.
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I wasted years thinking dirty talk was optional, just something extra for people who were already good at sex. Then I asked a guy what he thinks about right before he comes.
How to Talk Dirty to Your Man (Without Sounding Like a Porn Star)
Ever tried to talk dirty to your man and ended up mumbling something that sounded like a weather report? Yeah. Same. The good news: you can get damn good at this, just like riding him until he can’t think straight.
I Should Have Said No: Scripts for Boundaries and Owning Your Yes
Ever caught yourself thinking “I should have said no” after sex you didn’t really want? That sting isn’t a character flaw. It’s a signal. And it’s one you can learn to read, honor, and act on so you never have to swallow that bitter aftertaste again.
Questions to Ask Your Partner: 50 Prompts to Get Him Squirming
Ever wondered what your man actually thinks about during sex, or what he’s too scared to tell you? The right questions crack open his brain, build the kind of intimacy that lasts past the orgasm, and get his cock twitching before you ever lay a hand on him.
Sexual Consent: Your No-BS Guide to Getting and Giving a Hell Yes
Ever wished you could ask for consent without sounding like a lawyer spitting out a deposition? You want a hell yes, and you want to give one too, without the awkward silence and second‑guessing.
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